Facebook: Addiction Or Resource?

Just like the rest of the world, when Facebook came first came out. I opened an account. It is now closed. Why? Mainly because I found it pointless. 

Facebook started as a resource tool to connect to family and friends who you didn't see all the time. Now it's a huge social gathering. What's worse about it is that people think it's a good idea to put all their information about themselves on there including their phone numbers, addresses, personal information, pictures, etc.. 

Who thought this was a good idea? People can hack other peoples accounts, it doesn't matter if you blocked them or not, there is always a way. Besides the fact that your personal information can get out through the world and could possibly be harmful to you and your family. It's also not a good thing to have if you're looking for a professional job. 

Yes, when you apply at a job, they Google you. And what pops up, your Facebook. Lets just say you have pictures of yourself on there partying, drinking, whatever. It's not going to be good for you. They will think that you always party and you always drink. Even if it was only that one time, they will remember it when they pass up on your application. 

If you don't believe me, just Google your name and see what comes up. I'm guessing Facebook will be the first thing to pop up and also, check Google images for yourself too, because you will be in there. 

Back to Facebook being an addiction. There are so many people on Facebook, it's ridiculous. What's even more ridiculous is all the drama. Facebook is basically an online high school. I couldn't believe how many petty little fights I would see every day on there. If you don't like that person, then why are you their friend? Delete them and block them, that'll solve your problem. But no, you can't do that, then you can't make fun of them. You see, addiction, it's like a drug. Facebook is like a drug. You can't stop when you start. 

Another thing, the whole "Facebook official" thing has got to be one of the most dumbest things I have ever heard. What is the big deal with relationships on Facebook? Nobody cares and if they do care, then they have no lives, I'm sorry. What really bothered me was when people would post pictures of themselves making out with there bfs/gfs. Nobody wants to see that. If you want to see it, make it your background for you phone or your computer, but don't put it on Facebook. Another thing, what is it with couples posting "I love you" on each other's wall? What ever happened to calling or texting? You know the only reason people post that kind of stuff on other people's wall is to get the "awe"s. All they want is the attention.

I'm sorry if you disagree with my final conclusion, but Facebook is an addiction. 

Is It Mr, Mrs, Or Miss?

You start out life in the early stages of school starting at pre-kindergarten or pre-k. From pre-k through 12th grade you have to call your teacher/principal by either Mr., Mrs, or Miss. I understand it teaches respect for your elders, but why is it after you graduate from high school that all changes?

Think about it, first job. You don't call your boss Mr. or Mrs. unless you work in some sort of corporation. You call your bosses by their first names or perhaps a nickname. Another example: College. Depending on what college you attend, it may differ. Community colleges, you can call your professors by their first names, usually. Big name schools/universities, different story. They want you to use your knowledge from when you were just a small child in elementary school through high school. They want you to call them by a professional title like Professor so and so. Not Mr., Mrs., or Miss, it's now Professor.

Then it gets really professional the higher you get. Especially in government. Mr. Mayor, Mr. Congressman, Mr. Governor, Mr. President, etc.. I mean royalty I understand, Prince William, Queen Elizabeth, etc.. But professors and government workers, interesting isn't it?

Why Online Dating Doesn't Work

The whole online dating thing is growing, but why? When you're on a dating site, all you can see is someone's profile and maybe their picture. So you view their profile, say they like dogs, pizza, basketball and their picture looks attractive. That's not very much information.

Think about it, I'm not saying all, but I'm pretty sure some lie on their profiles. How do you know that is a picture of themselves? Everyone has heard about people posting images of models on their profiles, how do you know that the person you're talking to didn't do that if you never met them?

Besides the fact that the person may be lying about their information, how about the fact that the person is on an online dating site. Now I know it's difficult for some people to find love the transitional way, believe me, I understand, but why are their so many people on dating sites? Are they so desperate to find love? Can they not find anyone in the outside world? Now, sometimes that's true, no offense to you all who has trouble with that.

All these people who have their accounts, are they actually looking for someone or are they just browsing? The people who are actually looking for real, I respect you. The world is rough, if online dating works for you then great, continue to use it. But if you're just on there to see what else there is to offer and you can easily find a date in the transitional way, get off the site, cancel your subscription and cancel your account. There are people on there who are actually looking for their soul mate and you are in their way of finding that person.

For everyone who is on a dating and seriously looking for a relationship, it really helps people out if you have a picture. If you don't have a picture and a great profile, well, I'm sure you understand my meaning. Again for all of you who are just browsing like you're shopping for a car, don't be on a dating site, I'm almost positive you can find someone outside the internet. For all you who are on there looking for your soul mate, good luck to you.